Muslim Women at home are doing a wonderful job:

Women and household work !
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To all of my believing sisters out there who feel “ being stuck at home “ with child rearing and cooking and cleaning day in and day out .... who feel their productivity and creativity is withering away , who feel there is a lot to do out there like going for hifz classes , attending lectures , volunteering for dawah activities and other ways by which they can gain Allah subhaanahu wa taala s pleasure ....
Do you feel there is less opportunities at home for acquiring great rewards ?

Then let me remind you of 2 great women of Paradise ...
Khadijah and Fatimah , may Allah be pleased with them both ...

Khadija , (R) was not a scholar of Hadith like , Aisha (R) ... she has not related a single Hadith, nor has she participated in any battle of Islam ...
Then what are her achievements , of course being the first convert is the best of them .... which is obviously beyond our reach , but is it only that ?
No ... her role as devoted wife and mother of seven children and a pillar of support for her husband in good times and bad , are also priceless achievements , her willingness to serve her husband at all times ... her toil and fatigue ...

A Hadith states that once as she was coming with food and drink for the Prophet SAW when he was in Cave Hira, Angel Jibreel descended with the greeting of Salam from Allah for her and brought glad tidings of a house in Paradise built of Pearl where there will be no more noise or fatigue !

Fatimah Bint Muhammad (R) :
Wasn’t it her struggles as a wife and homemaker which made her the leader of women In Paradise ?
Or have we heard of extraordinary reports about her contributions to deen ?
No ....
It was her simple life , doing household chores taking care of husband and children and lots of hard work which had bruised her hands ... so much that when she asked for a maid , what did her beloved father say : Rather , my dear , recite 33 times each before sleeping SubhaanAllah , Alhamdulilah , Allahu Akbar , that will relieve you and lighten your burden ....

Take home message 🍆🥒🥕🍚

Muslim Women at home are doing a wonderful job , it’s enough to get us to Jannah if we are sincere to Allah and grateful to our husbands and fulfil our amaanah to the best each one can !

So next time you pick up the broom , do it with a smile and sincere dua :
“ O Allah accept from me ! “

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Slicing Through the Ego: The Internal Qurbani:

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Allaah did not call him Khaleel after a single moment. The friendship ripened through repeated surrender, across fire and desert and stone:

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Quran Juz 7 – Wa Iza Sami’u - Summary:

- Quran Juz 7 – Wa Iza Sami’u Summary Join Us: https://chat.whatsapp.com/EwGX2NFn95O2Bo92HkyyiI • Allah talks about those Christians who cannot control their tears when they listen to the Qur’anic recitation. This was especially in context to Najashi Ash’amah, the Christian King of Habsha who had accepted Islam. • From Verses 87 of Surah Maidah the topics like Halal & Haram and extremism are discussed. • Islam is a religion of balance. It neither calls for abstention of permissible items (for drinking, eating, wearing etc.) as piety, nor does it abolish the distinction between Halal & Haram. • Verse 89 talks about oaths (qasm/aqd). The penalty of breaking the oath is to either feed 10 poor and needy, twice, with an average food of his/her usual intake (cost wise), or to clothe them, or to free a slave. If someone cannot do it, he/she should fast on three days. Allah also advices to be true on oaths to be safe from getting penalized. • If a person takes an oath of...

Don’t fall into being from those who are unjust and falsely assume:

- ASSUME GOOD OF PEOPLE: 🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸 A girl willingly jumps into a car after the male driver who sees her walking in the streets tells her to get in. 🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸 A man walks into a mosque while everyone is praying to wash his hands and leaves it without joining the prayer. 🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸 A teenage boy is greeted by a passerby but doesn’t return the Salam. 🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸 - 1st scenario: the driver was the girl’s brother - 2nd scenario: the man had already prayed in a mosque nearby which finished earlier - 3rd scenario: the teenage boy is deaf 🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸 Many people will fall into this trap of assuming bad of others. How can a girl ever agree to ride with her guy friend, how can a man dare to enter a mosque and leave without joining in on prayer and how can young boy not have respect and answer back the greeting. 🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸 A scholar once said: “If I see my brother and his beard is dripping alcohol...

We must circulate the money by rotating it whatever amount we have, instead of having desires to earn more:

- August-04-2021. Today's learning: **Money controlling efforts:* *Introduction:* Islam has always reminded us to address the human problems by continuously checking and balancing the wealth, instead of remaining in the hands of few.So, the method of rotation must keep going on, in order to allow the free flow of money between all the people. No matter what, ultimately even after our great efforts to hoard it, one day or the other it's going to leave us eventually. *Hard earned money:* Islam says that hard earned money's value is more loved by Allah subhanahu wa taala as was earned by Prophet Dawood (peace be upon him).Allah made the iron smooth for him to turn it into different shapes and make it a useful commodity/good. Once Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) was asked about the best job, and he replied by saying. "A job that is done by one's own hand,and every decent trade. Hadith Imam Ahmed (16628). *Methods of utilising:* One could spe...

🥀 _بچوں کے بگڑنے کے ذمہ دار ہم خود_ 🥀

- 🥀 _*بچوں کے بگڑنے کے ذمہ دار ہم خود*_ 🥀 ایک بڑی تعداد ایسے لوگوں کی ہے جو کہتے ہیں ہمارا بچہ دوستوں میں رہ کر بگڑ گیا باہر کے ماحول نے اسے بگاڑ دیا بچہ جھوٹ بولے تو دوستوں نے سکھایا بدتمیزی کرے تو دوستوں نے سکھایا بچہ گالی دے تو دوستوں نے سکھایا ہے یقین جانیں یہ سوچ مکمل درست نہیں ہے در اصل کہیں نہ کہیں بچے کے بگڑنے کی سب سے اہم وجہ والدین کے اپنے فرائض کی عدم ادائگی ہوتی ہے جب شروع سے ہی بچے کی تربیت کو اہم فریضہ سمجھا جاتا ہے بچے کی پرورش کو اولین ترجیح دی جاتی ہے تو یہ بچہ دوستوں میں جا کر کبھی خراب نہیں ہوتا بلکہ دوستوں کی اصلاح کا سبب بنتا ہے بچہ پیدا ہوتے ہی دوستوں میں نہیں جا بیٹھتا پیدا ہوتے ہی اسکے دوست اسے لینے نہیں آجاتے پیدا ہوتے ہی آوارہ گردی شروع نہیں کرتا پیدا ہوتے ہی سگریٹ نہیں پکڑتا کم و بیش شروع کے دس سال تک بچہ مکمل والدین کے ساتھ اٹیچ ہوتا ہے اور یہی وہ دورانیہ ہے جہاں اکثر و بیشتر والدین عدم توجہ کا مظاہرہ کرتے ہیں بچہ جب پیدا ہوتا ہے تب اسکا دل و دماغ بلکل کورا کاغذ ہوتا ہے کہ جو دیکھے گا سنے گا وہ اس پر چھپتا چلا جائے گا اب ہم نے اس کاغذ پر کچھ نہیں لکھا...

Some of the traditional methods of raising children in Tarim (Yemen):

*Raising children* Some of the traditional methods of raising children in Tarim (Yemen). This is really beautiful. Women expecting children would ensure every morsel going into their mouths was halal. Breastfeeding mothers would repeatedly recite Ayah al-Kursi, Surah al-Falaq, Surah al-Nas and du'as of protection over their babies. When a child first began to speak it would be taught to say: رَضِيتُ بِاللهِ رَبّاً، وبِالإِسْلامِ دِيناً، و بسيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ صلى الله عليه وسلم نَبِيَّاً ورَسُولاً ‘I am content with Allah as my Lord, with Islam as my religion, and with our Master Muhammad ﷺ as my Prophet and Messenger.’ Parents would teach their children the importance of making good intentions and what intentions to make just as they would teach them how to recite Surat al-Fatiha. Parents would teach their children to call upon Allah in every situation. If a child asked for something, his parents would tell him to perform wudu, pray two rak'ats and then ask Allah to fulfil his...

- Quran Juz 15 – Sub’hanalladhiz - Summary:

- Quran Juz 15 – Sub’hanalladhiz Summary Join Us: https://chat.whatsapp.com/EwGX2NFn95O2Bo92HkyyiI • Surah Isra/Bani Israel: This chapter talks about the night journey of Prophet Muhammed ﷺ toward the Heavens (Isra & Meraj), an honor that no one else other than our beloved Prophet Muhammed ﷺ received. Isra was the beloved’s ﷺ journey from Makkah to Jerusalem, and Meraj was that from Jerusalem to the Heavens. • This chapter also mentions in detail many incidents of Bani Israel. • Allah’s wisdom behind taking Prophet Muhammed ﷺ to Jerusalem was to grant him and his followers the custodianship of Masjid al-Aqsa, just like that of Masjid al-Haraam in Makkah. • Though this chapter is themed at Tawheed, morals, affirmation of the Doomsday, but it also focuses on messengership, and particularly in that of Prophet Muhammed’s ﷺ. • The ...

Eid al-Adha Mubarak:

- Eid al-Adha teaches us lessons of devotion and sacrifice. The obedience to Allah, the sacrifice, and the selfless loyalty of Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham), peace be upon him, and Prophet Ismail (Ishmael), peace be upon him, were so beloved by Allah, the Lord of all creation, that He decreed them to be observed by believers until the Day of Judgment. On this blessed and joyous occasion of Eid al-Adha, with reliance on the Almighty Allah and adherence to the teachings of His Prophets, and with prayers for the establishment of unity and solidarity worldwide, this humble servant extends Eid al-Adha greetings to you and your family.

بچے کو قیادت سکھانا، خود انحصاری سکھانTeaching the child leadership, teaching self-reliance,

- احتیاط کریں کہ آپ اپنے گھر میں ایک معذور یا نافرمان فرد نہ پیدا کریں۔ اس بات سے ہوشیار رہیں کہ آپ (بےخبری میں) ایسا کرنے کی اجازت دے رہے ہوں۔ آخر تک توجہ دیں: ❌ وہ اپنے کپڑے بدل کر انہیں کمرے کے کسی بھی کونے میں پھینک دیتا ہے، پھر ماں آتی ہے اور انہیں اٹھا کر دھوتی، سکھاتی اور استری کرتی ہے؟ خبردار! اپنے بیٹے کو یہ خود کرنے کی عادت ڈالیں۔ ❌ وہ صبح اٹھتا ہے اور اپنا بستر بغیر ترتیب دیے اور صاف کیے چھوڑ دیتا ہے، پھر ماں آکر یہ سب کچھ کرتی ہے۔ ❌ کھانا تیار ملتا ہے، جو ماں نے محبت اور تحفظ سے بنایا ہوتا ہے، اور بعد میں وہ چائے کا کپ تک دھونے کی زحمت نہیں کرتا، کیونکہ اسے یقین ہے کہ ماں یہ بھی کر دے گی! ❌ وہ اسکول چلا جاتا ہے بغیر یہ جانے کہ اس کے ہوم ورک کیا ہیں، یا انہیں مکمل کیا ہے یا نہیں، کیونکہ گھر پر وہ سارا وقت سوشل میڈیا جیسے واٹس ایپ، فیس بک، اسنیپ چیٹ، انسٹاگرام وغیرہ پر مصروف رہتا ہے، اور ماں باپ دونوں خاموش رہتے ہیں۔ ❌ وہ سارا دن اپنے کمرے میں خود میں مگن رہتا ہے، گھر والوں کے ساتھ میل جول نہیں رکھتا، اور اگر رکھتا بھی ہے تو موبائل ہاتھ سے نہیں چھوڑتا، صرف ای...

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