- *The Perils of Pampering: Raising Disciplined, God-Conscious Children* In a world that glorifies instant gratification, indulgence, and materialism, we risk raising a generation that lacks resilience, respect, and responsibility. The saying, *"A pampered child becomes a spoiled adult,"* holds profound truth. If we fail to discipline our children today, we may find ourselves helplessly watching them struggle tomorrow or worse, witnessing them turn into entitled, inconsiderate adults. *Discipline is not oppression, it is love in action*. It is the framework that shapes a child’s character, teaching them that life does not always bend to their will. If we refuse to instill these values at home, the world will teach them often in ways we would never approve of. Islam places immense emphasis on disciplined upbringing. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said: > *"Command your children to pray at the age of seven, and discipline them for it at t...
The moment we realize that everything happens by the will of Allaah, all our worries begin to fade away:
- (external source) 🌷 *Whatever Allaah does......it's for our best*🌷 When my daughter was 2 years old, she loved to play with the water in the toilet bowl. Yes, that's right.... *the toilet bowl!!* Yuck!! That's nasty...you would say!! But to *her*, that was the *delight of the day!* Splish...splash! To her innocent mind, there was nothing like it! And so when I would prevent her from playing with it, she would scream and cry and wouldn't want to stop. She didn't understand how harmful that was for her. In her little brain, I took away something that she really enjoyed. And when I would take her to the doctor to have her immunization shots, she wouldn't understand that either. She would *howl* at the top of her lungs at the first sight of the needle and would run the other way. It would take two of us just to hold her down! To her, it was nothing but *torture*! Her innocent little mind...