When a husband is rude, abusive and bad tempered: the wife is told to have sabr and reminded what a good muslim wife does. But when a wife is rude and bad tempered: the husband is told to find a more pious wife, she is told women don't act this way and her character slandered. Why don't anyone give this advise instead? 👇 •• It is reported that a man came to 'Umar ibn Al-Khattab (radhiAllahu anhu) to complain about his wife's ill-temper. While he was waiting for 'Umar to come out of his house, he heard 'Umar's wife scolding him and 'Umar quietly listening to her, and not answering her back. The man turned around and started walking away, muttering to himself: "If that is the case with 'Umar, the leader of the believers, who is famous for his uprighteness and toughness, then what about poor me?!" At that moment, 'Umar came out of his house and saw the man walking away. He called him and said, "What is it you want of me, O man