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The moment we realize that everything happens by the will of Allaah, all our worries begin to fade away:

 - (external source) 🌷 *Whatever Allaah does......it's for our best*🌷 When my daughter was 2 years old, she loved to play with the water in the toilet bowl.  Yes, that's right.... *the toilet bowl!!* Yuck!!  That's nasty...you would say!!  But to *her*, that was the *delight of the day!*  Splish...splash!  To her innocent mind, there was nothing like it!  And so when I would prevent her from playing with it, she would scream and cry and wouldn't want to stop.  She didn't understand how harmful that was for her.  In her little brain, I took away something that she really enjoyed.   And when I would take her to the doctor to have her immunization shots, she wouldn't understand that either.  She would *howl* at the top of her lungs at the first sight of the needle and would run the other way.  It would take two of us just to hold her down!  To her, it was nothing but *torture*!  Her innocent little mind...

Eid al-Adha Mubarak:

 - Eid al-Adha  teaches us lessons of devotion and sacrifice. The obedience to Allah, the sacrifice, and the selfless loyalty of  Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham), peace be upon him, and Prophet Ismail (Ishmael), peace be upon him,  were so beloved by Allah, the Lord of all creation, that He decreed them to be observed by believers until the Day of Judgment. On this blessed and joyous occasion of Eid al-Adha, with reliance on the Almighty Allah and adherence to the teachings of His Prophets, and with prayers for the establishment of unity and solidarity worldwide,  this humble servant extends Eid al-Adha greetings to you and your family.

Before the Sadaqa reaches the one who needs it, it reaches the hands of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’alah first:

 - *A true story* Let me tell you a story about a teacher This teacher was trying to collect money from other teachers to furnish the Musallah (prayer room) of the school and fix an AC unit. She said: I never gave up; I used to talk to the teachers every day and remind them of the great reward of this deed. I was collecting bit by bit hoping to reach the needed target, it took me almost a month. One day one of my colleagues said: Enough, you are really disturbing us! You keep asking all the time. I said: WAllahi it’s a great cause and it is the path to Jannah in shaa Allah, give anything even if it’s one Riyal. She said if I give you a Riyal would you leave us alone. I answered: Yes, in shaa Allah. She then took a Riyal from her handbag and threw it at me! The teacher who was collecting the money says: I completed collection from my family and friends and Alhamdulilah I managed to collect what I thought would be enough to furnish the Musallah and buy the AC unit. Then she says: WAl...

بچے کو قیادت سکھانا، خود انحصاری سکھانTeaching the child leadership, teaching self-reliance,

 - احتیاط کریں کہ آپ اپنے گھر میں ایک معذور یا نافرمان فرد نہ پیدا کریں۔ اس بات سے ہوشیار رہیں کہ آپ (بےخبری میں) ایسا کرنے کی اجازت دے رہے ہوں۔  آخر تک توجہ دیں: ❌ وہ اپنے کپڑے بدل کر انہیں کمرے کے کسی بھی کونے میں پھینک دیتا ہے، پھر ماں آتی ہے اور انہیں اٹھا کر دھوتی، سکھاتی اور استری کرتی ہے؟  خبردار! اپنے بیٹے کو یہ خود کرنے کی عادت ڈالیں۔ ❌ وہ صبح اٹھتا ہے اور اپنا بستر بغیر ترتیب دیے اور صاف کیے چھوڑ دیتا ہے، پھر ماں آکر یہ سب کچھ کرتی ہے۔ ❌ کھانا تیار ملتا ہے، جو ماں نے محبت اور تحفظ سے بنایا ہوتا ہے، اور بعد میں وہ چائے کا کپ تک دھونے کی زحمت نہیں کرتا، کیونکہ اسے یقین ہے کہ ماں یہ بھی کر دے گی! ❌ وہ اسکول چلا جاتا ہے بغیر یہ جانے کہ اس کے ہوم ورک کیا ہیں، یا انہیں مکمل کیا ہے یا نہیں، کیونکہ گھر پر وہ سارا وقت سوشل میڈیا جیسے واٹس ایپ، فیس بک، اسنیپ چیٹ، انسٹاگرام وغیرہ پر مصروف رہتا ہے، اور ماں باپ دونوں خاموش رہتے ہیں۔ ❌ وہ سارا دن اپنے کمرے میں خود میں مگن رہتا ہے، گھر والوں کے ساتھ میل جول نہیں رکھتا، اور اگر رکھتا بھی ہے تو موبائل ہاتھ سے نہیں چھوڑتا، صرف ای...

The Azan, or Islamic call to prayer- Details:

 - The Azan, or Islamic call to prayer, is a beautiful and sacred tradition in Islam. Here are the words to the Azan: # Azan 1. *Allahu Akbar* (4 times): Allah is the greatest. 2. *Ashhadu an la ilaha illallah* (2 times): I bear witness that there is no deity except Allah. 3. *Ashhadu anna Muhammadan rasulullah* (2 times): I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah. 4. *Hayya 'ala al-salah* (2 times): Come to prayer. 5. *Hayya 'ala al-falah* (2 times): Come to success. 6. *Qad qamat al-salah* (2 times): Prayer has begun. 7. *Allahu Akbar* (1 time): Allah is the greatest. # Du'a after Azan After the Azan, it is recommended to recite the following Du'a: "Alahumma rabba hadhihi ad-da'wat al-tammah, wa al-salat al-qaimah, ati Muhammadan al-wasilata wa al-fadhilata, wa ab'athu maqamam mahmudan aladhi wa'adtahu, innaka la tukhlif al-mi'ad." "O Allah, Lord of this perfect call and the established prayer, grant Muhammad the means and t...

Eid Mubarak: Beyond the Festivities, Towards a Lifetime of Reflection:

 - ##  Eid Mubarak to you and your loved ones! As the crescent moon graces the sky, marking the end of Ramadan, we are filled with joy, gratitude, and a sense of spiritual renewal. The month of fasting, prayer, and reflection has drawn to a close, leaving behind a beautiful tapestry of shared experiences and strengthened faith. This Eid, as we gather with family and friends, exchanging warm greetings and savoring delicious treats, let's also take a moment to reflect on the profound lessons Ramadan has imparted. We've nurtured patience, empathy, and a deeper connection with our spiritual selves. We've learned the power of self-discipline and the beauty of giving. However, the true essence of Ramadan lies not just in the month itself, but in the lasting impact it has on our lives. The spirit of generosity, the commitment to prayer, the dedication to self-improvement – these are not fleeting practices to be abandoned once Eid arrives. This Eid, let's make a conscious effor...

Leadership Lessons from Ambiyya in the light of Qur’an:

 - Leadership Lessons from Ambiyya in the light of Qur’an (Urdu translation at bottom): Strategic Thinking and Planning - The Prophets demonstrated exceptional strategic thinking and planning skills, often anticipating and preparing for challenges and opportunities. Effective Communication - The prophets were skilled communicators, able to articulate complex ideas and values in a clear and compelling manner. Emotional Intelligence -  The prophets possessed high emotional intelligence, enabling them to empathize with others, manage conflicts, and build strong relationships. Patience Determination - The prophets faced immense opposition, yet they remained steadfast and committed to their mission. They were unshakeable in their commitment despite facing formidable challenges. Humility and Self-Awareness - The Prophets were characterized by their humility and self-awareness, recognizing their limitations and weaknesses, and seeking guidance and support when needed. Empowerment and...

What was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me:

 - Surrendering to His Plans & Timings This step is the key to complete freedom, but also the hardest to do. Surrendering to Allah SWT is vital when we want to "rest" because we can't be calm and be at ease when we have not learned to completely let go and surrender to Allah SWT and His plans for us.  I'm still trying to learn and practice doing this but the faster I surrender and submit to Him, the faster my heart rests.  Remembering these things have helped me immensely in handing over all of my affairs to Him: - Surrendering to Allah is not giving up. In fact, surrendering to Allah is the first step to success as you are letting the Lord of the Worlds, the Most Wise, the Most Powerful, the Most Compassionate, take over your affairs.  - Imam al Shafi'i understood this notion of "surrender" extremely well. He said, “My heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me." And Wh...

I became aware that my Lord is always watching over me:

 - *Hatim Tai said:* *"I have embraced four core truths and distanced myself from seeking knowledge from the world’s scholars."* *When asked, "What are these four truths?"* *Hatim Tai replied:* *1. "I realized that the sustenance (rizq) written for me is fixed and will neither increase nor decrease. So, I accepted my fate, stopped striving for more, and found contentment in what I have."* *2. "I understood that no one else can fulfill the rights of Allah on my behalf. Therefore, I devoted myself entirely to fulfilling my responsibilities toward Him."* *3. "I acknowledged that one thing is always pursuing me—death. It is inevitable, and I cannot escape it. I made peace with this fact and stopped fearing it."* *4. "I became aware that my Lord is always watching over me. I felt a deep sense of shame before Him and thus refrained from sinning."* *May Allah protect and guide us all.* Source: received through WhatsApp message 

Women are the architects of men:

 - *`Women are the architects of men`* *▪️Imam Bukhari was nurtured and raised by his mother.* *▪️Imam Shafi'i received his upbringing and education from his mother.* *▪️Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal was guided and brought up by his mother.* *▪️Hafiz Ibn Hajar was mentored and educated by his sister.* *▪️The mother of Sheikh-ul-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah, named "Taymiyyah," was a preacher. He was called "Ibn Taymiyyah" in her honor.* *▪️Imam Ibn Baz grew up under the care of his mother.* *Women are like factories for men. When women are righteous, homes and societies thrive.* *Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal once said about his mother:* > "*At the age of ten, my mother helped me memorize the Qur’an. She would wake me up before Fajr prayer, warm water for my ablution during the cold Baghdad nights, and dress me. Then, wearing her hijab, she would accompany me to the mosque, even though it was far from our home and the path was enveloped in darkness*." *If men create history,...

Prophet (s.a.w) warned his Companions from harming or abusing their animals:

- The Prophet Muhammed ﷺ: THE ADVOCATE FOR ANIMAL RIGHTS  From the mercy of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ is His ﷺ mercy towards animals. He ﷺ taught His ﷺ followers that even animals have rights and that we must show them mercy and kindness. He ﷺ warned his Companions from harming or abusing their animals. On one occasion, the Prophetﷺ came across an emaciated camel that was tied up to a column. Seeing this distressed Himﷺ.  He told His ﷺCompanions to fear God with respect to these animals, as they will be held accountable on the Day of Judgement in their treatment regarding them. On another occasion, God's Messenger ﷺ passed by a man who was milking a sheep. He ﷺ said: "When you milk her, leave some for her lamb because it is one of the gentlest of animals." Speaking of the rights of animals, He ﷺ also said: "Ride these animals as long as they are healthy, and do not take them as seats (when not riding)." And: 'God orders you to treat these beasts of burden well when...

The meaning of sustenance (Rizq):

  English Translation: “Do not grieve over your low salary, perhaps you have been given something else in exchange for your sustenance.” A great scholar, jurist, and Imam of his time says: “It is not necessary that sustenance should be wealth.” “Perhaps sustenance has been given in the form of good character or beauty.” “Perhaps sustenance has been given in the form of sound intellect.” “Which gives rise to good manners, gentleness, and patience.” “Perhaps sustenance has been given in the form of a righteous spouse.” “Or noble and supportive relatives and children.” “Perhaps sustenance has been given in the form of beneficial knowledge.” “Perhaps sustenance has been given in the form of a long life.” “Perhaps sustenance has been given in the form of a pure heart.” “Which grants affection and favors to people.” “Perhaps sustenance has been given in the form of a peaceful heart.” “Indeed, he who has a peaceful heart is the one who is truly blessed.” “Perhaps sustenance has been given...