Love Your 'Own Beautiful Wife':

*●Don’t shout* at your wife when you are talking. It really hurts her.

*●Do not share* her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery.

*●Never compare* your wife to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you.

*●Be gentle* and accommodating. She has sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and humiliating. Be tender.

*●Hide nothing* from her. You are now one and she’s your soulmate. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her.

*●Do not make* negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh and blood.

*●Do not let* her body determine her worth. Cherish and appreciate her even till old age.

*●Never shout* at her in the public and in private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room.

*●Thank and appreciate* her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making.

*●All women* cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years.

*●Never place* your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family.

*●Make time* to play with her and enjoy her company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral.

*●Never use* money to manipulate or control her. All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you by the grace of God.

*●Do not* expose her weakness. You will be exposing yourself too. Be a shield around her.

*●Honour* her parents and be kind to her siblings.

*●Never cease* to tell her how much you love her all through the days of her life. Women are never tired of hearing that.

📝And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.

📚(Al Quran 30:21)

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