Are You Easy to Socialize With?

The Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “The most complete in faith are those best in their character, those who are easy to socialize with, and those who get along with others and others get along with them. There is no good in the one who cannot get along with others and others cannot get along with him.” [Tirmidhi]

Parents should not depend on others for the correct upbringing of their children, they should take responsibility themselves:

A pattern and rule for the house. Dr Abdul Kareem Bakkaar from Syria famous for his sayings, an author of more than 40 books, who taught in most of the universities in Saudi Arabia. He mentions: Parents should not depend on others for the correct upbringing of their children, they should take responsibility themselves and make the children responsible for their own good character. It will be good if parents make some light rules in the house so that the children can understand the importance of fulfilling responsibilities and good character can become part of their lives. Parents should take what is relavent for them and if they so wish, change and add some points. 1. Every person in the house should perform Salaah on it’s correct time. 2. "Please" and "Jazakallah" are of utmost importance, no one will be exempt from using it. 3. Hitting, fighting, swearing and cursing will not be tolerated. 4. Your thinking and views will be presented with complete respe...

Animals which have been named in the Quran; the birds and insects of which are:

- Approximately 35 animals have been named in the Quran; the birds and insects of which are: Salwa (سلوی)=The quail (Baqarah:57), Ba’uth (بعوض)=Mosquito (Baqarah:26), Dhubab (ذباب)=Fly (Hajj:73), Nahl (نحل)=Honeybee (Nahl:68), Ankabut (عنکبوت)=Spider (Ankabut:41), Jarad (جراد)=Grasshopper (A’raf:133), HudHud (هدهد)=Hoopoe (Naml:20), Ghurab (غراب)=Crow (Ma’idah:31), Ababil (ابابیل)= probably ‘Swallow’ (Fil:3), Naml (نمل)=Ant (Naml:18), Farash (فراش)=Butterfly (Al-Qari’ah), Qummal (قمّل)=Flea (A’raf:133). Also, other animals have been mentioned in the Quran which are as follows: Qirdah (قرده)=Monkey (Baqarah:65), Bighal (بغال)=Mule (Nahl:16), Ghanam/Na’jah/Dha’n/Ma’z (غنم/نعجه/ضأن/معز)=Sheep (An’am:143-146 and Sad:23-24), Dhi’b (ذئب)=Wolf (Yusuf:15), Ba’ir (بعیر) and Jamal (جمل)=Camel (Yusuf:65; A’raf:40…), Qaswarah (قسورة)=Lion (Muddathir:51), Kheyl (خیل)/Jiyad (جیاد)(plural of جواد)/Saf...

The Leaking Bucket:

*_Beware of the leaking bucket._* 1. You wear a abaya and hijab but with perfume and makeup. (a leaking bucket) 2. You are following the Sunnah and have a beard but you don’t lower your gaze. (a leaking bucket) 3. You pray all of your prayers on time but you have no Khushu at all. (a leaking bucket) 4. You are very kind to people and speak with them gently, but with your family you are always harsh. (a leaking bucket) 5. You honour and treat your guests well but when they leave, you gossip about them and talk about their flaws. ((a leaking bucket) 6. You give a lot of sadaqah to the poor but you humiliate and hurt them. (a leaking bucket) 7. You stand up for tahajjud at night, fast, pray and read Quran everyday but cut your family ties. (a leaking bucket) 8. You fast and have sabr for the pangs of hunger and thirst but you swear, insult and curse. (a leaking bucket) 9. You help others but you are doing it to gain something from them and not doing this act of kindne...

The 40 Acts of Paradise:

* Abdallah Bin ‘Amr Bin ‘Āsؓ said that he heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say, “There are forty acts, the best of which is giving food, if any are done seeking their reward and believing in their promise, Allah will grant them Paradise by this act.” (Bukhari). Shaykh ‘Abdullah Bin Siddīq al-Ghumārī (d. 1993) wrote a small book enumerating these forty acts : 1. Feeding people in need and without remuneration 2. Removing a harmful object from the road 3. Feeding and watering animals 4. Visiting the sick 5. Befriending and visiting someone only for the sake of God 6. Belief in God and the Final Hour 7. Giving when you have little 8. Enjoying the good and forbidding the evil 9. Helping those with disabilities 10. Heling the misfortunate 11. Returning a salam greeting 12. Responding with blessings to the one who sneezes 13. Responding to an invitation 14. Following a funeral procession 15. Beginning a salam greeting 16. Giving sound advice 17. Removing harm from the mosque 18. Smi...

Keep your negative emotions in check because only when they are light that we can float, once they get heavier they weigh you down:

- ☁️Clouds ☁️ Have u ever wondered Wat makes up a ☁️ m sure most of u knw.... clouds are masses made up of tiny droplets of water 💧 or ice 🧊 Do you know how much they weigh...?🤔 They weigh nearly 1million pounds or 500,000kilos(google;) )😱 Have u wondered how they float in the sky ?🤔 They float cuz their density is lighter than the density of dry air🌀 Mind blowing 🤯isn’t it? We can’t imagine something tat heavy to float can we .!!!! God has created all this so tat we observe his greatness and ponder so as to Wat it teaches us For: "Indeed, within the heavens and the earth are signs (ayat) for the believers." (Qur'an 45: 3) We all are made up of qualities and emotions Tats wat keeps us floating like the clouds! Keep ur negative emotions in check cuz only when they are light tat we can float once they get heavier they weigh u down Just like when the droplets become heavier it rains 🌧 We all like rain isn...

An annual conference for education development (18th Conference):

* 18th Annual Millat Conference (by MFERD)* #* Perform to Potential*# - Building Holistic Education Systems Dear Brother/Sister, Assalamu Alaikum All praise is to the Almighty Lord who created us and bestowed upon us the title of ‘Khalifa’, His vicegerent on earth. This implies that every individual has the ‘potential’ to perform the duties of the Almighty’s vicegerent. Unfortunately, due to several internal and external hindrances, man doesn’t live up to his potential. Similar is the case of our institutions. In the present world scenario, firmly anchoring and strengthening our educational institutions is of prime importance. It is probably the only way to create a collectively contributing ummah, that can positively influence the future of societies and countries. A handful of schools providing holistic education can significantly change the outlook of an entire city. Such is the potential of educational institutions. But the challenge lies in developing systems and practices (a...

⭕ Kufr wa Shirk ⭕

*❧ Allah Ta’ala ki sifaat mein shirk:* ❧ Allah Ta'ala ki sifaat mein shirk ka matlab yeh hai ke jo sifaat Allah Ta'ala ke saath khaas hain, un ko kisi doosre ke liye maanna jaise Allah Ta'ala ke alaawa kisi ko rozi dene waala aur aulaad dene waala samajhna, kisi Nabi aur wali ke baare mein yeh aqeeda rakhna ke un ko khuda ki tarah gaib ki tamaam baaton ka ilm hai, Allah Ta'ala ki tarah kisi doosre ko ibaadat ka mustahiq samajhna aur us ke liye ibaadat ka koi fel karna jaise kisi qabr par ya kisi buzurg ke saamne sajda karna, kisi paigambar aur wali ke naam ka roza rakhna aur un ke naam par jaanwar zabah karna wagaira wagaira. ❧ Gunaahon mein kufr-o-shirk sab se bade gunah hain, kufr-o-shirk toba ke bagair hargiz maaf nahin hote, kufr-o-shirk ki haalat mein marne waala hamesha Jahannam mein rahega. ❧ Qur‘aan Majeed mein Allah Ta'ala ne shirk ke baare mein farmaaya: “Beshak Allah Ta'ala shirk ko maaf nahin karega aur is ke alaawa ji...

NASEEHA to ME and YOU!!

OUR PHONES ...................... One of the hardest task in this 21st century is for the youths to spend 30 mins without "touching" their phones! Almost everyone is now a phone addict. It's the last thing you touch before you sleep at night. It's the first thing you touch when you wake up at dawn Some even put earpiece on their ears overnight. Some still wake at night to download films but they can't wake up for tahajud. Some are always "online" chatting. As early as 6am they are online and they remain online till midnight. They have thousands of friends online whom they chat with but they don't relate with their families at home. They isolate themselves in their rooms. Some argue till midnight about aqeedah issues, yet by fajr time, he is sleeping and snoring. Immediately after the tasleem in salat, you see people pressing their phones again, no time for adhkaar! As if all their past and future sins have already been forgiven! When a...

Story of 2.5%

One day, a very wealthy man was walking on the road. Along the way, he saw a beggar on the sidewalk. The rich man looked kindly at the beggar and asked him why he was begging. The beggar said, "Sir, I've been unemployed for a year now. You look like a rich man. Sir, if you'll give me a job, I'll stop begging." The rich man smiled and said, "I want to help you. But I won't give you a job. I'll do something better. I want you to be my business partner. Let's start a business together. The beggar blinked hard. "What do you mean, Sir? "I own a rice plantation. You could sell my rice in the market. I'll provide you the sacks of rice. I'll pay the rent for the market stall.. All you'll have to do is sell my rice. And at the end of the month, as Business Partners, we'll share in the profits. Tears of joy rolled down his cheeks. Do I keep 5% and you get 95%? I'll be happy with any arrangement. The rich man shook his head a...

Speaking in soft positive manner would not cost you anything but would enchant those you speak to and get rid of any ill feelings:

There was once a king who saw in a dream that all his teeth had fallen out. He called a dream-interpreter, told him what he saw in the dream, and asked him to interpret it. When the interpreter heard the dream, his complexion changed and he began to repeat, “Allāh’s refuge is sought! Allāh’s refuge is sought!” The king became worried and asked, “What is the interpretation of my dream?” The interpreter said, “After many years pass, your wife and children will die and you will be all alone in your kingdom!” The king screamed, became furious, and began to hurl abuses and insults. He then ordered that the interpreter be imprisoned and called another interpreter, related to him what he saw in the dream and asked him for its interpretation. The dream-interpreter smiled and said, “Glad tidings, dear king!” The king said, “What is the interpretation of the dream?” The interpreter said, “It means that you will live for very long – so long that you will be the last of your family to die, an...

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