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Status of Father in Islam:

This is in Urdu Language:

*✨باپ کی عظمت کا ایک اہم واقعہ✨*

اَلسلامُ علیکم -

بسم اللہ الرحمٰن الرحیم ،

ﺍﯾﮏ شخص ﺭﺳﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ کی خدمت میں حاضر ہوا اور اس نے ﺍﭘﻨﮯ ﺑﺎﭖ ﮐﯽ ﺷﮑﺎﯾﺖ ﮐﯽ ﮐﮧ ﯾﺎ ﺭﺳﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ !!
ﻣﯿﺮﺍ ﺑﺎﭖ ﻣﺠﮫ ﺳﮯ ﭘﻮﭼﮭﺘﺎ نہیں ﺍﻭﺭ ﻣﯿﺮﺍ ﺳﺎﺭﺍ ﻣﺎﻝ ﺧﺮﭺ ﮐﺮ ﺩﯾﺘﺎ ﮬﮯ،

ﺁﭖ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻧﮯ ﺍﻥ ﮐﮯ والد محترم ﮐﻮ بلوایا،

ﺟﺐ ﺍﻥ ﮐﮯ ﻭﺍﻟﺪ ﮐﻮ ﭘﺘﺎ ﭼﻼ ﮐﮧ ﻣﯿﺮﮮ ﺑﯿﭩﮯ ﻧﮯ ﺭﺳﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭ آلہ و ﺳﻠﻢ ﺳﮯ ﻣﯿﺮﯼ ﺷﮑﺎﯾﺖ ﮐﯽ ﮬﮯ ﺗﻮ ﺩﻝ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺭﻧﺠﯿﺪﮦ ﮬﻮﺋﮯ...

ﺍﻭﺭ ﺭﺳﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﮐﯽ ﺧﺪﻣﺖ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺣﺎﺿﺮﯼ ﮐﮯ ﻟﺌﮯ ﭼﻠﮯ...

ﭼﻮﻧﮑﮧ ﻋﺮﺏ ﮐﯽ ﮔﮭﭩﯽ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺷﺎﻋﺮﯼ ﺗﮭﯽ
ﺗﻮ ﺭﺍﺳﺘﮯ ﻣﯿﮟ ﮐﺠﮫ ﺍﺷﻌﺎﺭ ﺫﮨﻦ ﻣﯿﮟ کہتے ہوئے پہنچے،

ﺍﺩﮬﺮ ﺑﺎﺭﮔﺎﮦ ﺭﺳﺎﻟﺖ ﻣﯿﮟ ﭘﮩﻨﭽﻨﮯ ﺳﮯ ﭘﮩﻠﮯ ﺣﻀﺮﺕ ﺟﺒﺮﺍﺋﻞ ﺁﭖ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﮐﯽ ﺧﺪﻣﺖ
ﻣﯿﮟ ﺣﺎﺿﺮ ﮬﻮﺋﮯ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻓﺮﻣﺎﯾﺎ،
ﮐﮧ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺳﺒﺤﺎﻧﮧ ﻭ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﮧ ﻧﮯ ﻓﺮﻣﺎﯾﺎ ﮬﮯ ﮐﮧ ﺍﻥ ﮐﺎ معاملہ ﺑﻌﺪﻣﯿﮟ ﺳﻨﺌﯿﮯ ﮔﺎ ﭘﮩﻠﮯ ﻭﮦ ﺍﺷﻌﺎﺭ ﺳﻨﯿﮟ ﺟﻮ ﻭﮦ ﺳﻮﭼﺘﮯ ﮨﻮﮮﺁ ﺭﮨﮯ ﮬﯿﮟ،

ﺟﺐ ﻭﮦ ﺣﺎﺿﺮ ﮨﻮﮮ ﺗﻮ ﺁﭖ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻧﮯﻓﺮﻣﺎﯾﺎ،
ﮐﮧﺁﭖ ﮐﺎ ﻣﺴﺌﻠﮧ ﺑﻌﺪ ﻣﯿﻦ ﺳﻨﺎ ﺟﺎﺋﮯ ﮔﺎ ﭘﮩﻠﮯ ﻭﮦ ﺍﺷﻌﺎﺭ ﺳﻨﺎﺋﯿﮯ ﺟﻮ ﺁﭖ ﺳﻮﭼﺘﮯ ﮬﻮﮮ ﺁﺋﮯ ﮬﯿﮟ،

ﻭﮦ ﻣﺨﻠﺺ ﺻﺤﺎﺑﯽ ﺗﮭﮯ،
ﯾﮧ ﺳﻦ ﮐﺮ ﻭﮦ ﺭﻭﻧﮯ ﻟﮕﮯ...  ﮐﮧ
ﺟﻮ ﺍﺷﻌﺎﺭ ﺍﺑﮭﯽ ﻣﯿﺮﯼ ﺯﺑﺎﻥ ﺳﮯ ﺍﺩﺍ بھی ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ہوئے، ﻣﯿﺮﮮ اپنے ﮐﺎﻧﻮﮞ ﻧﮯ ابھی ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﺳﻨﮯ...

ﺁﭖ کے ﺭﺏ ﻧﮯ ﻭﮦ ﺑﮭﯽ ﺳﻦ ﻟﺌﯿﮯ....

اور آپ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ کو بتا بهی دیا،
ﺁﭖ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻧﮯ ﻓﺮﻣﺎﯾﺎ ﮐﮧ ﻭﮦ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺍﺷﻌﺎﺭ ﺗﮭﮯ
ﮨﻤﯿﮟ ﺳﻨﺎﺋﯿﮟ،

ﺍﻥ ﺻﺤﺎﺑﯽ ﻧﮯ ﺍﺷﻌﺎﺭ ﭘﮍﮬﻨﺎ ﺷﺮﻭﻉ ﮐﯿﮯ،

( ﺁﭖ ﮐﻮ ﺍﻥ ﮐﺎ آسان ﺗﺮﺟﻤﮧ بتانے کی کوشش کرتے ہیں،  کیونکہ جو اشعار تھے اور جس اعلی پائے کے تھے اور جو جذبات کی کیفیت تھی، ان کی صحیح ترجمانی اردو میں مشکل ہے بہرحال اشعار کچھ اس طرح سے تھے کہ )

ﺍﮮ ﻣﯿﺮﮮ ﺑﯿﭩﮯ !
ﺟﺲ ﺩﻥ ﺗﻮ ﭘﯿﺪﺍ ﮬﻮﺍ
ﮨﻤﺎﺭﯼ محنت ﮐﮯ ﺩﻥ ﺗﺒﮭﯽ ﺳﮯ ﺷﺮﻭﻉ ﮬﻮﮔﺌﮯ ﺗﮭﮯ.
ﺗﻮ ﺭﻭﺗﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ ، ﮨﻢ ﺳﻮ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﺳﮑﺘﮯﺗﮭﮯ،

ﺗﻮ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﮐﮭﺎﺗﺎ ﺗﻮ ﮨﻢ ﮐﮭﺎ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﺳﮑﺘﮯ ﺗﮭﮯ،

ﺗﻮ ﺑﯿﻤﺎﺭ ﮬﻮ ﺟﺎﺗﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺗﺠﮭﮯ ﻟﯿﺌﮯ ﻟﯿﺌﮯ ﮐﺒﮭﯽ ﮐﺴﯽ ﻃﺒﯿﺐ ﮐﮯ ﭘﺎﺱ علاج معالجے کے لیے مارے مارے پھرتے تھے ﮐﮧ ﮐﮩﯿﮟ تجھے کچھ ہو نہ جائے

ﮐﮩﯿﮟ ﻣﺮ ﻧﮧ ﺟﺎﺋﮯ،

حالانکہ ﻣﻮﺕ ﺍﻟﮓ ﭼﯿﺰ ﮬﮯ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺑﯿﻤﺎﺭﯼ ﺍﻟﮓ ﭼﯿﺰ ﮬﮯ،

ﭘﮭﺮ ﺗﺠﮭﮯ ﮔﺮﻣﯽ ﺳﮯ ﺑﭽﺎﻧﮯ ﮐﮯ ﻟﺌﮯ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺩﻥ ﺭﺍﺕ ﮐﺎﻡ ﮐﺮﺗﺎ ﺭﮨﺎ

ﮐﮧ ﻣﯿﺮﮮ ﺑﯿﭩﮯ ﮐﻮ ﭨﮭﻨﮉﯼ ﭼﮭﺎؤﮞ ﻣﻞ ﺟﺎﮮ،

ﭨﮭﻨﮉ ﺳﮯ ﺑﭽﺎﻧﮯ ﮐﮯ ﻟﺌﮯ ﻣﯿﮟ ﻧﮯ ﭘﺘﮭﺮ ﺗﻮﮌﮮ

ﺗﻐﺎﺭﯾﺎﮞ ﺍﭨﮭﺎﺋﯿﮟ ﮐﮧ ﻣﯿﺮﮮ ﺑﭽﮯ ﮐﻮ ﮔﺮمی ﻣﻞ ﺟﺎﮮ،

ﺟﻮ ﮐﻤﺎﯾﺎ ﺗﯿﺮﮮ ﻟﯿﺌﮯ،
ﺟﻮ ﺑﭽﺎﯾﺎ ﺗﯿﺮﮮ ﻟﯿﺌﮯ،

ﺗﯿﺮﯼ ﺟﻮﺍﻧﯽ ﮐﮯ ﺧﻮﺍﺏ ﺩﯾﮑﮭﻨﮯ ﮐﮯ ﻟﯿﺌﮯ ﻣﯿﮟ ﻧﮯ ﺩﻥ ﺭﺍﺕ ﺍﺗﻨﯽ ﻣﺤﻨﺖ ﮐﯽ ﮐﮧ اب ﻣﯿﺮﯼ ﮨﮉﯾﺎﮞ تک کمزور ﮨﻮ گئی ہیں لیکن تو کڑیل جوان ہو گیا ہے....

ﭘﮭﺮ....

ﻣﺠﮫ ﭘﺮ ﺧﺰﺍﮞ ﻧﮯ ﮈﯾﺮﮮ ڈال ﻟﺌﮯ لیکن ﺗﺠﮫ ﭘﺮ ﺑﮩﺎﺭ ﺁﮔﺌﯽ...

ﻣﯿﮟ ﺟﮭﮏ ﮔﯿﺎ
ﺗﻮ ﺳﯿﺪﮬﺎ ﮨﻮ ﮔﯿﺎ

ﺍﺏ میری خواہش اور ﺍﻣﯿﺪ پوری ہوئی
ﮐﮧ ﺍﺏ ﺗﻮ ﮨﺮﺍ ﺑﮭﺮﺍ ﮬﻮ ﮔﯿﺎ ﮬﮯ،

ﭼﻞ ﺍﺏ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﯽ ﮐﯽ ﺁﺧﺮﯼ ﺳﺎﻧﺴﯿﮟ ﺗﯿﺮﯼ ﭼﮭﺎﻭﮞ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺑﯿﭩﮫ ﮐﺮ
ﮔﺰﺍﺭﻭﮞ ﮔﺎ،

ﻣﮕﺮ ﯾﮧ ﮐﯿﺎ ﮐﮧ ﺟﻮﺍﻧﯽ ﺁﺗﮯ ﮬﯽ
ﺗﯿﺮﮮ ﺗﯿﻮﺭ ﺑﺪﻝ ﮔﺌﮯ....

ﺗﯿﺮﯼ ﺁﻧﮑﮭﯿﮟ ﻣﺎﺗﮭﮯ ﭘﺮ ﭼﮍﮪ ﮔﺌﯿﮟ....

ﺗﻮ ﺍﯾﺴﮯ ﺑﺎﺕ ﮐﺮﺗﺎ ہے ﮐﮧ جیسے ﻣﯿﺮﺍ ﺳﯿﻨﮧ ﭘﮭﺎﮌ ﮐﺮ ﺭﮐﮫ ﺩﯾﺘﺎ ہے

ﺗﻮ ﺍﯾﺴﮯ ﺑﺎﺕ ﮐﺮﺗﺎ ﮐﮧ ﮐوئی غلام ﺳﮯ ﺑﮭﯽ ﺍﯾﺴﮯ ﻧﮩﯿں کرتا...

ﭘﮭﺮ
ﻣﯿﮟ ﻧﮯ ﺍﭘﻨﯽ ساری زندگی کی ﻣﺤﻨﺖ ﮐﻮ ﺟﮭﭩﻼ ﺩﯾﺎ ﮐﮧ
ﻣﯿﮟ ﺗﯿﺮﺍ ﺑﺎﭖ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﻧﻮﮐﺮ ﮬﻮﮞ....

ﻧﻮﮐﺮ ﮐﻮ ﺑﮭﯽ ﮐﻮئی ﺍﯾﮏ ﻭﻗﺖ ﮐﯽ ﺭﻭﭨﯽ ﺩﮮ ﮨﯽ ﺩﯾﺘﺎ ﮬﮯ...

ﺗﻮ ﻧﻮﮐﺮ ﺳﻤﺠﮫ ﮐﺮ ﮨﯽ ﻣﺠﮭﮯ ﺭﻭﭨﯽ ﺩﮮ ﺩﯾﺎ ﮐﺮ....

ﯾﮧ ﺍﺷﻌﺎﺭ ﺳﻨﺎﺗﮯ ﺳﻨﺎﺗﮯ ﺍﻥ ﮐﯽ ﻧﻈﺮ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﮐﮯ ﺭﺳﻮﻝ صلی اللہ علیہ والہ و سلم کے چہرہ مبارک ﭘﺮ پڑی تو دیکھا کہ

ﺁﭖ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﺍﺗﻨﺎ ﺭﻭﺋﮯ ﮐﮧ ﺁﭖ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﮐﯽ ﺩﺍﮌﮬﯽ ﻣﺒﺎﺭﮎ ﺗﺮ ﮨﻮ ﮔﺌﯽ،

ﺁﭖ ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ و آلہ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ جلال ﻣﯿﮟ ﺍﭘﻨﯽ ﺟﮕﮧ ﺳﮯ ﺍﭨﮭﮯ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺑﯿﭩﮯ کا گریبان پکڑ کر ﻓﺮﻣﺎﯾﺎ ﮐﮧ
انت و ما لک لا بیک،
ﺗﻮ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺗﯿﺮﺍ ﺳﺐ ﮐﭽﮫ ﺗﯿﺮﮮ ﺑﺎﭖ ﮐﺎ ﮨﮯ،
ﺗﻮ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺗﯿﺮﺍ ﺳﺐ ﮐﭽﮫ ﺗﯿﺮﮮ ﺑﺎﭖ ﮐﺎ ﮨﮯ،
ﺗﻮ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺗﯿﺮﺍ ﺳﺐ ﮐﭽﮫ ﺗﯿﺮﮮ ﺑﺎﭖ ﮐﺎ ﮨﮯ،
( تفسیر قرطبی )

اللہ کریم سے دعا ھے
رب ارحمهما كما ربياني صغيرا *
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 * Prophet Muhammed's ﷺ Business Etiquette* - In Islam, trade has always been recognised as an important aspect of human life. Before revelation came to Prophet ﷺ, he earned his living as a trader. His integrity and veracity were quickly noticed by his employer, Sayyida Khadijah (RA), who later married him.  *★ Sadiq and Ameen* It was a result of his ﷺ honesty and noble character that he ﷺ was called as 'Sadiq' (truthful) and 'Ameen' (trustworthy) amongst the Makkans. Hazrat Abu Sufianؓ  (the bitterest enemy of Islam before he accepted Islam) said: "It is inconceivable for one who has never told a lie during his whole life to invent lies against Allah ﷻ. The Makkans agreed unanimously that Allah's Messenger ﷺ was a truthful person. Once before his conversion, Yasir (ra) asked his son Ammar (ra), where he was going. Ammar (ra) said that he was going to the Prophet ﷺ. Being fully satisfied of his son's safety while with him ﷺ, he replied: "Muhammad ﷺ...
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“My knowledge is growing, but is it causing me to grow?”

A Ramadan of Change – 26 of 30 ** A nightly appointment with an angel ** In Ramadan, the Prophet Mohammad PBUH would be blessed with a nightly appointment with angel Jibreel who’d mutually study with him the Qur’an. Describing this and its effects, Ibnu ‘Abbaas said: كَانَ رسول الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم - أجْوَدَ النَّاسِ، وَكَانَ أجْوَدَ مَا يَكُونُ في رَمَضَانَ حِيْنَ يَلْقَاهُ جِب...
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WOMEN ARE THE BIGGEST TEMPTATION (fitnah) FOR MEN & THIS IS THE TRUTH (sharee’ah closes all doors that may lead to evil)::

- ALLAH says in surah al-Imran: aya 14: ﴿زُيّنَ لِلنَّاسِ حُبُّ الشَّهَوتِ مِنَ النّسَآء وَالْبَنِينَ وَالْقَنَـطِيرِ ..... ""Beautified for men is the love of things they covet; women, children, Qanatir Al-Muqantarah of gold and silver,...... ALLAH started with women, because the test with them is more TEMPTING. For instance, the Sahih recorded that the Messenger (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said,  «مَا تَرَكْتُ بَعْدِي فِتْنَةً أَضَرَّ عَلَى الرِّجَالِ مِنَ النِّسَاء»  “I have not left behind me any fitnah (temptation) more harmful to men than women.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5096; Muslim, 2740.)  & It is reported that ‘Abdullâh b. Mas’ûd – radhi allahu anhu – said: If I had ten days left to live, and I knew I would die by the end of them, and I had enough time to get married, I would get married for FEAR of temptation (fitnah of women). Source: Sa’îd b. Mansûr, Al-Sunan article 493. ALLAHU AKBAR, we all know and even the Quran & Authentic Sunnah bear witness a...
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Allah willed a righteous spouse based on Niyah, Du'a and belief in qadr of Allah:

I would interpret this as Choosing Wisely and equating it to "Tying the camel". Yes, The Qur'an says: “Women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity.” (24:26) and Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: “A woman may be married for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character), so marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper.” (Bukhari) So yes, we must choose well but ultimately it comes down to Niyah, Du'a and belief in Qadr of Allah. This is the only equation that leads anywhere worthwhile. This is also hikmah. For a person who lacks hikmah will not understand the need for this.  A long long time ago, when it was my turn to "tie the knot" I am sure that I would have messed up, if Allah has not taken charge and willed for me the partner I have today. Alhamdulillah! But here is where I say there is more to this....this is a THREE part series. Allah willed a ri...
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