How can you connect tarbiyat of children through sunnah and hadith (Urdu):

*تربیتِ اولاد کا ایک طریقہ یہ بھی ہے*
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👈جب بچے کے بال میں کنگھی کرو تو اسے بتاؤ کہ بالوں ميں کنگھی کرنا پیارے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی سنت ہے چنانچہ ارشاد نبوی ہے : *( مَنْ كَانَ لَهُ شَعْرٌ فَلْيُكْرِمْهُ )*
*ترجمہ: جس کے پاس بال ہوں تو اسے سنوارنا چاہیے.* (رواه أبو داود (3632) )

👈جب بچے کو مدرسہ بھیجو تو اسے پیارے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی یہ حدیث سناؤ : *من سلك طريقاً يطلب فيه علماً سهل الله له طريقاً إلى الجنة.*
*ترجمہ : جو علم سیکھنے کے لئے گھر سے نکلتا ہے تو اللہ تعالی اس کے لئے جنت کا راستہ آسان بنا دیتا ہے.* ( رواه البخاري / كتاب العلم/10 )

👈جب بچے کے سامنے مسکراؤ تو اسے بتاؤ کہ پیارے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے مسکرانے کو صدقہ (نیکی) قرار دیا ہے : *( تَبَسُّمُكَ فِي وَجْهِ أَخِيكَ لَكَ صَدَقَةٌ )*
*ترجمہ : اپنے بھائی کے سامنے مسکرانا صدقہ ہے.* (ترمذى (1956) )

👈جب بچے کی تعریف کرو تو اسے پیارے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کا یہ فرمان سناؤ : *( الْكَلِمَةُ الطَّيِّبَةُ صَدَقَةٌ )*
*ترجمہ : اچھی بات بهی صدقہ (نیکی) ہے.* (البخاري ( 2734 )

👈جب تم اپنا کھانا بچے کے پلیٹ ميں ڈالو تو اسے بتاؤ کہ یہ بھی نیکی کا کام ہے ارشاد نبوی ہے : *( ... وَإِفْرَاغُكَ مِنْ دَلْوِكَ فِي دَلْوِ أَخِيكَ لَكَ صَدَقَةٌ. )*
*ترجمہ : اپنے برتن سے کوئی چیز لے کر اپنے بھائی کے برتن ميں ڈالنا صدقہ اور نیکی ہے.* (ترمذى (1956) )

👈جب تم کہیں ایسی محفل میں ہو جہاں بڑے بزرگ لوگ ہوں تو اپنے بچے کو ان کی خدمت کے لئے کہو اور اسے بتاؤ کہ پیارے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی اطاعت و فرمانبرداری کا یہ ایک طریقہ ہے کیونکہ ارشاد نبوی ہے : *( لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ لَمْ يَرْحَمْ صَغِيرَنَا وَيُوَقِّرْ كَبِيرَنَا )*
*ترجمہ : جو چھوٹے پر رحم اور بڑے کی عزت نہ کرے وہ ہم میں سے نہیں.* ( رواه الترمذى (1919) )

*👈الغرض اس طرح اپنے بچوں کی تمام حرکات و سکنات کو پیارے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی سنت مبارکہ اور سیرت طیبہ سے جوڑنے کا اہتمام کرنا چاہیے اور انهیں پیارے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی پیاری پیاری حدیثیں سکھانی چاہیے.*

اللہ تعالى ہم سب کو اس کی توفیق عطا فرمائے.

Source: Received in WhatsApp message. Republished in Kind teacher blog.

Rasoolullah's ﷺ Shoes and Leather Socks:

Rasoolullah (ﷺ) wore shoes like sandals or slippers. Rasoolullah (ﷺ) also wore black leather socks and during Wadhu passed his moist hanks over them (made Masah). His shoes had two straps between the toes (Uswah: Mirqaat). There was a strap at the back as well. The Shoes of Rasoolullah (ﷺ) were one span and two fingers long and 7 fingers wide; there was a space of two fingers between the two straps at the toe end (Uswah) Rasoolullah (ﷺ)used to wear shoes made of leather that was smooth after the removal of the animal hair, and after wadhu He would place his feet into them because they were pure and made in such a way that his toes would thouch the ground. (Uswah) Rasoolullah (ﷺ) also wore shoes made of smooth leather. (Mishkaat) Rasoolullah (ﷺ) would would grip his shoes with his left thumb and index finger. (Shamaail Tirmidhi) Hazrat Anas (Radiallahhu’ anhu) narrates that from the sunnah is that one should remove his shoes and place them to the left side when sitting. (Mishkaat) Sourc...

A key insight into the development of your child:

THIS WAS DELIVERED BY SHAYKH AKRAM NADWI IN A CONFERENCE AT THE AZHAR UNIVERSITY, CAIRO. DEPT OF ISLAMIC PSYCHOLOGY EDUCATION. - The purpose of marriage is to have children and then educate them to worship Allah SWT. - When a child is born, a mother and father are also born. - The personal development of the parents is just as important as that of the child. This point is often overlooked. - Modern education seeks to incorporate people into the economy - to make money. Islamic education seeks to train people to become 'good' individuals, in terms of their character etc. 'Good' meaning to prepare for the Hereafter. - Your children, before they are your children, they are the slaves of Allah. His rights over them precede your rights. - Your duty is to teach them and provide them guidance - not to make them pious. You will be questioned whether you taught them right or not. - Parents need to realise they too are slaves of Allah. His rights over them precede their...

Keep your negative emotions in check because only when they are light that we can float, once they get heavier they weigh you down:

- ☁️Clouds ☁️ Have u ever wondered Wat makes up a ☁️ m sure most of u knw.... clouds are masses made up of tiny droplets of water 💧 or ice 🧊 Do you know how much they weigh...?🤔 They weigh nearly 1million pounds or 500,000kilos(google;) )😱 Have u wondered how they float in the sky ?🤔 They float cuz their density is lighter than the density of dry air🌀 Mind blowing 🤯isn’t it? We can’t imagine something tat heavy to float can we .!!!! God has created all this so tat we observe his greatness and ponder so as to Wat it teaches us For: "Indeed, within the heavens and the earth are signs (ayat) for the believers." (Qur'an 45: 3) We all are made up of qualities and emotions Tats wat keeps us floating like the clouds! Keep ur negative emotions in check cuz only when they are light tat we can float once they get heavier they weigh u down Just like when the droplets become heavier it rains 🌧 We all like rain isn...

Quran Juz 5 – Wal Muhsanaat - Summary:

- Quran Juz 5 – Wal Muhsanaat Summary Join Us: https://chat.whatsapp.com/EwGX2NFn95O2Bo92HkyyiI • While the 4th Juz ended with the list of women relatives who cannot be married with, the 5th Juz completes this topic by saying that all other women are permissible to get married to, in exchange of Mehr, provided the intention is to start a family, not to attain a temporary enjoyment. • Verse 26 of Aal Imran talks about the two sides of Allah’s mercy: 1. The adherence to the Shariah brings about safety of everyone’s wealth, life, and honor. 2. With the mention of the incidents of the past in the Quran, Allah asks us to have a balanced approach and to reap its goodness. • Wishful desires lead to distress and depression, whereas adherence to the Shariah not just brings peace but takes a person off from the burdens of unwanted rituals, misleading beliefs...

Quran Juz 9 – Qalal Mala’u - Summary:

- Quran Juz 9 – Qalal Mala’u Summary Join Us: https://chat.whatsapp.com/EwGX2NFn95O2Bo92HkyyiI • Juz 8 ended with the story of Sayyiduna Shuaib (alaihissalam), which continues in Juz 9. • The leaders of Sayyiduna Shuaib’s (alaihissalam) community threatened to exile him and his companions if they didn’t stop calling people towards Tawheed. • The believers said that Allah has protected them from disbelief and have made them a community of Islam. They said they will never come back on disbelief. • When the disbelievers did not change, they saw a devastating earthquake, and all the disbelievers died. • After narrating the incidents of all of these prophets, Allah says that He uses all the ways to get His message conveyed to the disbelievers. • Prosperity & poverty a test or punishment: It is being said that no matter people are involved in prosperity or poverty, if they commit good deeds in it, it is a test. However, if they commit sins which invites Allah’s displeasu...

What is Jannah ?

*What is “Jannah” ?* *ᴊᴀɴɴᴀʜ* ɪꜱ ᴍᴀᴅᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ 1. ʙʀɪᴄᴋꜱ ᴏꜰ ɢᴏʟᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ꜱɪʟᴠᴇʀ. 2. ɪᴛꜱ ᴄᴇᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪꜱ ᴏꜰ ᴘᴇʀꜰᴜᴍᴇᴅ ᴍᴜꜱᴋ. 3. ɪᴛꜱ ᴄʜɪᴘꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ᴘᴇᴀʀʟꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʏᴀQᴏᴏᴛ. 4. ɪᴛꜱ ꜱᴀɴᴅ ɪꜱ ᴢᴀꜰʀᴀᴀɴ. *ᴇɪɢʜᴛ ɢʀᴀᴅᴇꜱ ᴏꜰ ᴊᴀɴɴᴀʜ* 1. ᴊᴀɴɴᴀᴛᴜʟ ᴍᴀᴀᴡᴀ 2. ᴅᴀʀᴜʟ ᴍᴀQᴀᴀᴍ 3. ᴅᴀʀᴜʟ ꜱᴀʟᴀᴀᴍ 4. ᴅᴀʀᴜʟ ᴋʜᴜʟᴅ 5. ᴊᴀɴɴᴀᴛ-ᴜʟ-ᴀᴅᴀɴ 6. ᴊᴀɴɴᴀᴛ-ᴜʟ-ɴᴀᴇᴇᴍ 7. ᴊᴀɴɴᴀᴛ-ᴜʟ-ᴋᴀꜱɪꜰ 8. ᴊᴀɴɴᴀᴛ-ᴜʟ-ꜰɪʀᴅᴏᴜꜱ *ꜰᴏᴏᴅ ᴏꜰ ᴊᴀɴɴᴀʜ* ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴇᴀᴛ ꜰᴏᴏᴅꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ꜰʀᴜɪᴛꜱ ᴄᴏɴᴛɪɴᴜᴏᴜꜱʟʏ ᴜᴘ ᴛᴏ 40 ʏᴇᴀʀꜱ. ᴇᴠᴇʀʏ ʙᴏᴡʟ/Bite ᴡɪʟʟ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀ ɴᴇᴡ ᴛᴀꜱᴛᴇ. ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴛᴀᴋᴇ ᴇʀᴜᴄᴛᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ᴡʜɪᴄʜ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴅɪɢᴇꜱᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ꜰᴏᴏᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇʀᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ᴘᴇʀꜰᴜᴍᴇᴅ ꜱᴡᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴅɪɢᴇꜱᴛɪᴏɴ ᴏꜰ ᴡᴀᴛᴇʀ. ᴛʜᴇʀᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ɴᴏ ᴜʀɪɴᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ꜱᴛᴏᴏʟ. *ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇ ɴᴀᴍᴇ* ᴛʜᴇʀᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ɢᴀʀᴅᴇɴꜱ ɪɴ ᴊᴀɴɴᴀʜ. ᴇᴠᴇʀʏ ɢᴀʀᴅᴇɴ ᴡɪʟʟ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ʟᴇɴɢᴛʜ ᴏꜰ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ 100 ʏᴇᴀʀ'ꜱ ᴊᴏᴜʀɴᴇʏ. ᴛʜᴇ ꜱʜᴀᴅᴏᴡ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴇꜱᴇ ɢᴀʀᴅᴇɴꜱ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ᴠᴇʀʏ ᴅᴇɴꜱᴇ. ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴘʟᴀɴᴛꜱ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ꜰʀᴇᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴏʀɴꜱ. ᴛʜᴇ ꜱɪᴢᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ʟᴇᴀᴠᴇꜱ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ᴇQᴜᴀʟ ᴛᴏ ᴇᴀʀꜱ ᴏꜰ ᴇʟᴇᴘʜᴀɴᴛꜱ. ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ꜰʀᴜɪᴛꜱ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ʜᴀɴɢɪɴɢ ɪɴ ʀᴏᴡꜱ. ᴊᴀɴɴᴀᴛᴜʟ ᴍᴀᴡᴀ ɪꜱ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ʟᴏᴡᴇꜱᴛ, ᴊᴀɴɴᴀᴛ-ᴜʟ-ᴀᴅᴀɴ ɪꜱ ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪᴅᴅʟᴇ & ᴊᴀɴɴᴀᴛ-ᴜʟ- ꜰɪʀᴅᴏᴜꜱ ɪꜱ ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ...

Understand prayers we offer:

Fard : obligatory prayer Sunnah : Prophet's tradition Wajib: obligatory prayer (Denying a Fard makes one a non-Muslim but denying a Wajib makes one a sinner. One must make up any missed Fard or Wajib prayers.) Nafl : voluntary prayer And again how sunnah is divided: The sunnah are again divided into Sunnah Muakkadah and Sunnah Ghair Muakkadah. Sunnah Muakkadah: means an act that Prophet Muhammad, Sall-Allahu alayhi wa sallam, always used to do. These rakats must be offered. (However if missed, there is no makeup or qada for it). Sunnah Ghair Muakkadah: are sunnahs that Prophet Muhammad, Sall-Allahu alayhi wa sallam, used to leave sometimes without any reason. These are not obligatory. Thanks for reading. I felt many of us have lack of clarity on this basic concept of Namaz we offer. Jazakallah hu khair. Source: Received as whatsaap message. Republished in this blog.

Tarbiyah vs. Ta’leem

Sh. Salman al-Odah was asked, “How do you get your kids to love the salah?” The first thing he said was, “Have them love you.” Learn this life lesson: tarbiyah is founded upon relationship. Tarbiyah is the raising up and education of a child such that she can reach her full potential as a human and a Muslim. It is different than ta’leem, which refers to fact-based education. We often confuse the two, giving our children ta’leem when they need tarbiyah. Ta’leem is teaching our children the how-to of the prayer. Memorizing the duas, learning the positions. Tarbiyah is the cuddling after the prayer when we ask each other, “What did you ask for in sajdah?” Ta’leem is memorizing ahadeeth and verses. Tarbiyah is the dinner-table banter where we talk current events and other issues on our mind. Ta’leem is studying fiqh. Tarbiyah is the loving conversation we have about an incident that happened at school. Ta’le...

Quran Juz 11 – Ya’taziroon - Summary:

- Quran Juz 11 – Ya’taziroon Summary Join Us: https://chat.whatsapp.com/EwGX2NFn95O2Bo92HkyyiI • 11th Juz continues to talk about those hypocrites who didn’t accompany Prophet Muhammed ﷺ in the Expedition of Tabuk. Allah says that they thought that the Muslims will lose the war and thus refrained from joining. But Allah kept the morale of the Islamic infantry high, as the Byzantines didn’t turn up at Tabuk at all for the combat. • Before Prophet Muhammed ﷺ returned to Madinah from Tabuk, Allah informed him that the hypocrites will give him lame excuses, and asked him ﷺ to tell the same to the hypocrites. • Verse 98 of Surah Tawbah talked about two types of Arab nomadic villagers: 1. The ones who regarded money spending in the way of Allah as a compulsory fine, and looked forward to misfortunes befalling on Muslims. 2. Those who saw the money spending in Allah’s way as a means of attaining nearness to Allah, and earning the prophet’s ﷺ supplications for themselves. • A...

A believer's story of a Quarintine:

Assalamu Alaikum Alhamdhulillah ... By the grace of Almighty Allah, I reached home yesterday by the Delhi... Trivandrum special train. And now I'm under home quarantine for two weeks in the upper flat of our residence. My children and grandchildren are all away, so strict quarantine is made easy. I request you all to make Dhua for ease. We started for Nizaamudheen on the 11th of February, from Kollam ( Ab. Kareem Sb of Poredam, Thaha Sr of Pattazy and myself ), to spend two months in Nizaamudheen Markaz for Thartheeb. But eventually, as you know, things took a different course. Insha Allah, it will be exactly 4 months on 11th June, when we finish the ongoing quarantine. We were put in forced quarantine for 58 days in 4 different quarantine camps in Delhi without periodic tests. The entire Ramadhaan and Edul Fithr was spent in the camps. We had the unique distinction of having total vegitarian food for a full Ramadhaan and even on t...

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