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Father's role in parenting:

*Parenting Tips*
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*Oh fathers! Be righteous:*

🤲Be A Righteous Father
صالح باپ بنیں! 

۔ وَكَانَ أَبُوهُمَا صَالِحًا {سرة الكهف، 82}
اور ان کا باپ ایک صالح آدمی تھا۔
*“and their father was a righteous man” (Al-Kahf:82)*

Abdullah ibn Mas’ūd (may Allāh be pleased with him), used to pray at night and would see his small child sleeping then he would say, *“this is for your bright future”* and whilst crying would recite:
عبداللہ ابن مسعود رضی اللہ عنہ ، رات کو نماز پڑھتے تھے اور اپنے چھوٹے بچے کو سوتے ہوئے دیکھتے تھے ، تب وہ کہتے تھے ، "یہ آپ کے روشن مستقبل کے لیے ہے" 
اور روتے ہوئے یہ آیت پڑھتے:

وَكَانَ أَبُوهُمَا صَالِحًا
اور ان کا باپ ایک صالح آدمی تھا۔
“And their father was righteous” 
(Al-Kahf:82)

lbn Abbās (may Allāh be pleased with him) said: *“They were protected by the righteousness of their father.”*
ابن عباس رضی اللہ عنھم نے فرمایا " وہ اپنے والد کی صداقت کی وجہ سے محفوظ کرلیے گئے"۔
Saeed lbnul Musayb said: *“I pray, then when I remember my child, I increase in my prayers"*
سعید ابن مصیب نے فرمایا: 
میں نماز پڑھتا ہعں، پھر جب مجھے اپنی اولاد کا خیال آتا ہے، تو میں زیادہ عبادت کرتا ہوں۔

(🔖Tafseer Al-Baghawee Vol-5 Pg 196)

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