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Don’t fall into being from those who are unjust and falsely assume:

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ASSUME GOOD OF PEOPLE:


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A girl willingly jumps into a car after the male driver who sees her walking in the streets tells her to get in.


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A man walks into a mosque while everyone is praying to wash his hands and leaves it without joining the prayer.


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A teenage boy is greeted by a passerby but doesn’t return the Salam.


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- 1st scenario: the driver was the girl’s brother

- 2nd scenario: the man had already prayed in a mosque nearby which finished earlier

- 3rd scenario: the teenage boy is deaf


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Many people will fall into this trap of assuming bad of others. How can a girl ever agree to ride with her guy friend, how can a man dare to enter a mosque and leave without joining in on prayer and how can young boy not have respect and answer back the greeting.


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A scholar once said: “If I see my brother and his beard is dripping alcohol, I would say it was perhaps spilled on him. And if I find him standing on a mountain and saying: “I am your Lord the Most High”, I would say that perhaps he is reading a verse from the Quran”.


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Ibn Al Qayyim said: “By Allah, it is difficult for a person to know his own intentions for his deeds, so how can he possibly know with certainty the intentions of others?”


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My dear brothers & sisters, many times we hasten to judge others not realizing that we may be only seeing a part of the whole picture. We must learn to realize for every situation, there may be more to the story and for every decision, there may be a legitimate reason. Let’s try thinking positive of others so we don’t fall into being from those who are unjust and falsely assume.


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