Pre-marriage Counselling:

Salamalaikum Brothers and Sisters

If you are going to get married soon, and want to learn to handle the challenges of married life, in-laws issue, saas-bahu issues, balance b/w wife and mother, joint family concerns, then this group is for you. (https://chat.whatsapp.com/KyO2iAR4lVEEDDdjhDgQR0)

Alhamdulillah Since I am a Life Coach and Counsellor I get lots of cases of clients who face major issues after marriage, which could have been easily avoided if there was some Pre-marriage Counselling.

I also get a lot of questions from going-to-be married boys/girls, for which they don't have any answers.

For this reason, I have created this group, where I will be answering such questions in the light of Quran and Sunnah.

Feel free to Join and Share with your family and friends.

If all goes well we will also have a Pre-Marriage Workshop Inshallah

Regards

Abdul Mannan M. Ali

NLP Practitioner and Life Coach

+91 9481635967

www.amlc.in

Join Group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KyO2iAR4lVEEDDdjhDgQR0

Source: received through whatsapp, we have no connection with this organisation.

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