*Learning Meeting Etiquette from Prophet Muhammed ﷺ

Hazrat Imam Hasanؓ reported: "Husainؓ said, 'I asked my father about the conduct (Seerah) of the Prophet ﷺ towards those in gatherings. He said that the Prophet ﷺ always had a friendly facial expression. He had a soft and friendly character. He neither had harsh or coarse behavior, nor was he a fault finder, and a person who used to get involved in trivial argumentation.

Prophet Muhammed ﷺ would overlook things that he disliked, but at the same time did not force others to dislike them too. He forsook three things for himself: involvement in disputes, being excessive in any matter, and matters that did not concern him.

As far as he went with dealing with people in the meetings, he never dishonored anyone nor got into the personal matters of people.

Prophet Muhammed ﷺ spoke only the words with which he hoped to get rewards from Allah. He laughed at what people in his meetings found to be humorous, and would express amazement at what they expressed amazement at. He would be patient at rude attitudes of strangers. He would not accept his praise except from the person who responded to him for any favor (keeping in view the Quranic verse 3:188). He ﷺ would not interrupt a talking person, unless the person went beyond his limits - he would either stop him by either prohibiting or leaving the place.’”

_Reference: Shamail Muhammadiyyah ﷺ by Imam Tirmidhi, Hadith # 351_

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